Do It Better

People who don’t experience sexual attraction often pleasure themselves and have sex with others.

Here’s how to start exploring what your sexual fantasies means, how to communicate them, and how to explore them safely. 

How can we reset our homes to invite a more satisfying season of sex, self-love, and sensuality?

Lots of us are embracing sexting in a socially distant world.

Here’s what to do if you find yourself in a sex rut.

Here are some useful tips and tricks to assist you along your masturbatory journey.

Learn more about Dame’s new online workshops, designed to help overcome blockers, gain clarity, and have more fun in the bedroom.

Nudity is a great tool in self-love and body acceptance—and it has real health benefits, too.

How do we bring our full selves to intimacy and pleasure, in a world built to punish us for letting our guards down?

Here are some of our favorite posts about getting off.

We hear a lot about how performance anxiety affects penises, but what about all the vulvas out there?

Your libido is usually not a fixed, spontaneous entity.

Studies show that lesbians and bisexual women are having more orgasms and pleasure than straight women.

For marginalized people and especially Black people, wellness challenges a culture that normalizes our shame and suffering.

Just because NSA sex isn’t romantic doesn’t mean we can cut corners on kindness and connection.

In an era of uncertainty, snapping nude selfies has become this writer’s sacred ritual.

There’s one simple thing you can do to own your pleasure: masturbate.

Here are a few ways to explore the sensation in your breasts. 

Roommates, parents, children, and siblings are a blockade to an otherwise glorious masturbation session.

Create time and space for your sex life, rather than just expecting things to sort themselves out.

When I gave up orgasms, I found a wealth of other sensations that I hadn’t yet explored.

Your partner’s love language gives you a clue of how best to turn them on during foreplay.

The winter isn’t kind to our sex drives. Here’s how to welcome the spring.

Some practical and emotional sex advice for plus-size vulva-havers.